By Jessica Wedemeyer
7:26pm PDT, Aug 16, 2023
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According to multiple media outlets, Ben Affleck romanced high school girlfriend Cheyenne Rothman — who directed the 2004 short film "Release the Cracken" — off and on from 1990 to 1997. She was by his side when he attended the Los Angeles premiere of "Chasing Amy" in early 1997 — the same year he scored his major breakthrough with "Good Will Hunting."
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Ben Affleck and Gwyneth Paltrow co-starred in two films over the course of their off-and-on relationship of about three years. She won an Oscar for her performance as aspiring actress Viola de Lesseps in 1998's "Shakespeare in Love," while he portrayed actor Ned Alleyn. In early 1999, they took home SAG Awards for outstanding performance by a cast for their work in the period drama.
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Ben Affleck and Gwyneth Paltrow went on to star in the romantic drama "Bounce," which failed to make an impression with critics or at the box office. They called it quits before the film opened in theaters in November 2000.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez fell for each other while shooting the 2003 flop "Gigli" in late 2001. By the spring of 2002, they were officially an item — and thus "Bennifer" was born.
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Ben Affleck famously starred in then-girlfriend Jennifer Lopez's paparazzi-themed late-2002 music video for "Jenny from the Block." (They're pictured on the music video's set in Beverly Hills on Oct. 20, 2002.) Years later, he'd call shooting the clip "a big regret."
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On Dec. 8, 2002 — about a month after he popped the question — Ben Affleck and new fiancée Jennifer Lopez made their red carpet debut as a couple at the New York City premiere of her rom-com "Maid in Manhattan."
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Jennifer Lopez showed off her massive engagement ring from Ben Affleck at the premiere of "Daredevil" in Los Angeles on Feb. 9, 2003. Harry Winston designed the impressive sparkler, which featured a 6.1-carat rare pink diamond flanked by smaller white diamonds. At the time, it was estimated to be worth a cool $2.5 million. Bennifer planned to tie the knot in Santa Barbara, California, on Sept. 14, 2003, but just days before they were set to exchange vows, they called off the wedding due to "excessive media attention." A few months later, they officially ended their relationship.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez reunited on screen in the Kevin Smith-directed dramedy "Jersey Girl," which tanked with critics and at the box office. By the time the film opened in theaters in March 2004, they'd already called it quits.
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Following his breakup from Jennifer Lopez, Ben Affleck briefly romanced television ad-sales exec Enza Sambataro. They reportedly met at a charity bowling tournament in May 2004 and quickly became inseparable but called it quits just two months later.
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Two years after they appeared in 2001's "Pearl Harbor" (he headlined while she had a small role as a nurse), Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner co-starred in "Daredevil." When they shot the 2003 superhero flick, she was married to Scott Foley and he was in the midst of his relationship with Jennifer Lopez. After their respective relationships came to an end in 2004, they finally took their relationship to the next level.
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Two months after they started dating, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner made their public debut as a couple at an MLB game: They were snapped sitting together while watching the Boston Red Sox take on the St. Louis Cardinals during the World Series at Boston's Fenway Park on Oct. 23, 2004.
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It was a huge year for Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner: The duo got engaged in April 2005, tied the knot in June 2005 and welcomed their first child together, daughter Violet, in December 2005. The actor was snapped escorting his visibly pregnant wife to the Creative Arts Emmy Awards in Los Angeles on Sept. 11, 2005, though they declined to pose together on the red carpet. Their second child, daughter Seraphina, arrived in January 2009. They added son Samuel to their brood in February 2012.
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A year and a half after they tied the knot, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner finally made their official red carpet debut as a couple at the 2007 Golden Globe Awards.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner made their final appearance as a couple at Save the Children's Illumination Gala in New York City on Nov. 19, 2014. Seven months later, the duo released a joint statement announcing that they were ending their decade-long marriage.
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In the wake of his breakup from Jennifer Garner, Ben Affleck was linked to Christine Ouzounian, who nannied his three children with the actress. Throughout the summer of 2015, there were conflicting reports about when exactly the Oscar winner and the blonde beauty took their relationship to the next level. The following year, however, Jen told Vanity Fair that she and Ben "had been separated for months" before he and Christine became an item. "She had nothing to do with our decision to divorce. She was not a part of the equation," maintained the "Alias" alum.
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In July 2017 — three months after Jennifer Garner officially filed for divorce — Ben Affleck started stepping out with Lindsay Shookus. At the time, there were conflicting reports about when exactly they became an item, with some outlets alleging that the A-list actor and the "Saturday Night Live" producer first got together three years earlier while they were both still married to other people. According to some reports, she left her husband, "Late Night With Seth Meyers" producer Kevin Miller, for Ben. People magazine, meanwhile, reported that Jen actually confronted Lindsay in person about her alleged affair with Ben back in 2015.
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Things between Ben Affleck and Lindsay Shookus quickly grew serious: They made their Hollywood debut at the 2017 Emmys, during which she was honored for her work producing "Saturday Night Live." But the following summer, the seemingly inseparable duo suddenly called it quits amid a setback in the actor's lengthy battle with substance abuse issues.
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In August 2018, Ben Affleck started stepping out with Playboy model Shauna Sexton, indicating that his relationship with Lindsay Shookus had come to an end. The rebound romance proved to be short-lived, though: By October 2018, they'd called it quits.
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In late 2019, Ben Affleck was seen at a Halloween bash with musician Katie Cherry, prompting reports they'd quietly started dating a few months earlier after meeting on Raya, an uber-exclusive dating app for the rich and famous. At the time, the A-list actor confirmed he was dating and made a joke about Raya — but never specifically confirmed he was on the app or seeing Katie.
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Ben Affleck and Ana de Armas spent the first half of 2020 marking several major milestones in their relationship. In mid-March, the A-list actor was snapped joining his new girlfriend as she house-hunted in the Los Angeles area. The following month — as it became clear they were quarantining together amid the coronavirus pandemic — they made their relationship Instagram official: On April 30, the "Knives Out" star shared a slideshow of photos of herself celebrating her 32nd birthday with her beau in the California desert. The happy couple shared their love with the world again when they appeared in the celeb-stuffed music video for Residente's song "Antes Que El Mundo Se Acabe," which debuted on May 14. (They contributed a clip of themselves kissing during Ana's birthday bash.)
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As Ben Affleck and Ana de Armas grew increasingly serious in mid-2020, they hit another major milestone: On May 23, they were snapped walking their dogs in Los Angeles with the three children Ben shares with ex-wife Jennifer Garner: Violet, Seraphina and Samuel. It was the first time one of the A-list actor's girlfriends had been seen publicly with his children. Alas, it wasn't meant to be: In January 2021, reports confirmed the couple had split. "She broke it off," a source told People magazine. "Their relationship was complicated." However the source claimed, "This is something that was mutual and something that is completely amicable. They are in different points in their lives; there is deep love and respect there."
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On Sept. 10, 2021 — exactly 17 years after they called off their 2004 wedding just four days before they were set to exchange vows — Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez made their rekindled romance red carpet official at the 78th Venice International Film Festival premiere of his movie "The Last Duel." It was the first time they'd posed together in an official capacity since they called it quits all those years ago. In a February 2022 interview with People magazine, J.Lo opened up about getting a second chance. "It's beautiful the way it feels very different than it was years ago. … There's more of an appreciation and a celebration for it, which is nice. When you find somebody and you really, really love them and you get a second chance at that? That is a really rare, precious, beautiful thing and we don't take it for granted," she said.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez spent the second half of 2021 blending their families. That August, for example, they took two of his kids with ex-wife Jennifer Garner, Violet and Seraphina, and J.Lo's twins with ex-husband Marc Anthony, Max and Emme, to a production of the hit musical "Hamilton" in Los Angeles. They all also went trick-or-treating together on Halloween and were frequently spotted shopping and catching movies as a group. They're seen here visiting the Brentwood Country Mart with Emme and Ben's son, Samuel.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez were inseparable as 2022 kicked off, with Ben doing a little foreshadowing as he joined J.Lo at the premiere of her film "Marry Me" in February. They went house hunting together during the spring and by April, they were engaged — he proposed with an enormous and rare colored diamond ring in his love's lucky color: green. Then on July 17, the pair eloped at the Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas. "We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient. Twenty years patient," J.Lo wrote in her OnTheJLo newsletter announcing their happy news, adding that it was "exactly what we wanted." She concluded her lengthy post, "Love is a great thing, maybe the best of things — and worth waiting for" before signing it, "With love, Mrs. Jennifer Lynn Affleck." They threw a bigger, more formal wedding for family and friends at Ben's Georgia estate a month later on Aug. 20, 2022.
